Letter From Hollie Toups

*Photo taken Friday, January 18, 2013 Guiseppe Barranco/The Enterprise

*Photo taken Friday, January 18, 2013 Guiseppe Barranco/The Enterprise

Dear Revenge Porn Victim, The moments after you first see your naked photos on the internet for display is a pivotal moment in your life.  It’s a moment when time stands still, and everything, EVERYTHING changes.  In an instant you lose not only your privacy and your confidence, but you are soon made to feel you’ve lost your voice as you cry out for help, and it seems no one’s listening. I don’t have to imagine how helpless you feel, I know how helpless you feel.  I’ve lived it.

YOU ARE NOT ALONE!

YOU HAVE A VOICE!

PEOPLE ARE LISTENING!

You soon become desperate, and are willing to do ANYTHING to have your pictures removed and to feel relief.  You just want it to GO AWAY!  These spineless, predatory cowards lurking in the shadows behind involuntary porn websites know that you will get desperate enough to do anything they tell you.  They offer you relief in return for your payment, or they claim they will remove pictures if you publish your “story” on their site.  They come up with all sort of ways to “help” you.  In reality, nothing they say they are willing to do is to help you, but rather help them.  You’ve already been exploited!  Don’t let them further humiliate you, and use you to their advantage.  Stand up for yourself, take a stand against them and let them know they will not win.  Don’t tell THEM your story; tell a lawyer, tell an investigator, tell Bullyville, tell the public!  Expose them the way they’ve exposed you, and in turn hold them accountable for their actions!  There ARE good people out there willing to help you!  There ARE options!  They can only get away with what we allow them to.  You are the only one who can take away their power, by taking a STAND!

NEVER GIVE UP!

Your friend, Hollie Toups

 

 

*Photo taken Friday, January 18, 2013 Guiseppe Barranco/The Enterprise

Victims Speak Up

*Photo taken Friday, January 18, 2013 Guiseppe Barranco/The Enterprise Photo

Hollie Toups and Marianna Taschinger are two of the first victims to speak up and go public with their experiences.  Below is the entire [raw] footage of their interviews with 12 News in Beaumont, TX.   Hollie and Marianna, we are so proud of you.  Thank you for paving the way for other victims to speak up about their experience.

 

For Every Girl

Thank you for standing up for every girl who had all the air ripped out of her chest, who stayed up until 3am sobbing while she googled her name, for every girl who learned how to write a DMCA takedown notice, studied the copyright laws of foreign countries hosting vile content, for every girl who had to tell her parents and siblings and relatives what was going on, for every girl who had to sit down with her boss and say “Turns out he’s not the man I thought he was,” and for every girl who had to tell a current boyfriend/spouse that her boobs are on the internet.

For every girl who has applied for a job and held her breath the entire process hoping they won’t go past page 3 of a google search.

For every girl who sits silent while her “friends” talk about the new trend of shaming sluts online; listening to them talk about how the girls deserved it for taking photos and hoping people don’t notice the scarlet letter pinned to your jacket.

For every girl who walked into a therapist’s office and said “I’m not sure how life goes on from here.”

For every girl who has been blackmailed and horrified by humanity. For every girl who has been let down by the police, even though they’re there to “protect you.”

For every girl who was SCREAMING for help, and kept getting passed off to another person, and nobody gave a damn.

For every girl who started going by a different name, who felt ashamed of who she has been her whole life. And then waking up one day unable to figure out who she is anymore.

Thank you, thank you, thank you. For being our voice, because some of us are just not strong enough to speak out.

 

The messages contained on this page are from emails that we received through the End Revenge Porn website.  End Revenge Porn obtained the consent of the authors before posting them anonymously.